Frequently Asked Questions
Is the ritual legal?
Yes – All legal requirements relating to the release and care of the body are strictly adhered to.
Do you absorb the sins of living people?
No. Why should I – the living person can ask to be absolved of all of his or her sins simply by asking God’s forgiveness or asking a priest to forgive them.
How many people can attend the service?
As many as is practical. Obviously, this is a very solemn and private rite and so the family of the departed usually invite only the close members of the family. Most ceremonies have eight to ten people in attendance including the undertaker and his or her assistants.
Who makes the arrangements for the ceremony?
The Funeral Director will make all arrangements including the purchasing of the bread, salt and beer. I liaise with the funeral director in the days leading up to the ceremony.
Why do you make a charge of your services?
My charges compensate for my time, travelling costs and any accommodation.
What is the Church’s view of this practice?
It all depends on who you speak to. Most take the view that no harm can come of it and if it gives peace of mind to the deceased’s family and friends then that is a good thing.
As in the past, the church is prepared to ‘turn a blind eye’ to the rite.
As in the past, the church is prepared to ‘turn a blind eye’ to the rite.
Are there any age-limits relating to the deceased?
Definitely not – I have eaten the sins of young teenagers to octogenarians.
Do you offer your services to both men and women?
Yes.
What do we, as family members do during the procedure?
Your undertaker will fully brief you but basically the rules are: No Talking and No Looking at my face, before, during or after the service. And Mobile Phones must be Turned OFF.
Can we film the ceremony?
Absolutely Not – if I or any of the other officials notice the presence of a camera, the ceremony will end immediately.